24 September, 2020

Your Place Or Mine?

The crisp, clean, well-lit rustle of carnal ‘fun’

Your Place Or Mine?

Are we having more sex than ever before? I don’t know. It’s impossible to tell what people did behind closed doors in the seventies. Indians are bloody good at subterfuge, so it’s entirely possible that our parents’ generation had as much sex as we do, only they were better at hiding it.

In the new culture of openness, it’s okay to have sex and be honest about it. For you have done nothing wrong. You don’t have to shout it out from the rooftops (Facebook will do), but you don’t have to be in denial either.

When talking of casual sex, we often tend to confuse it with one-night stands. Not true. In most cases, casual sex refers to multiple sexual partners with whom one has sex more than once. Both partners are aware of this. How much information you share about your other partners depends on your relationship with that person. In most cases, people prefer to spare each other the lurid details. Don’t ask, don’t tell. And do people use condoms? Not really. When I asked a friend...



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