24 September, 2020

Viagra of the Illicit

Like sexual performance, marital performance also improves with a touch of insouciance and a lot more of laughter.

Viagra of the Illicit
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When I was young, we were taught the first important lesson in sexual mores: be a gentleman to your wife and a man to the woman you love. The underlying assumption was: wives expect a certain kind of sexual reserve from their husbands. Stick to that. Never violate that. Give them children, look after them with respect and love. Protect them, care for them, make them feel safe and wanted. That is family. Treat it like family. If it is sex you want, fun and excitement in the artistry of making love, choose another woman. She could be a friend, a colleague, someone else's wife or mistress, it does not really matter. What matters is that she is your friend and not your wife. So you need not worry overmuch about form or protocol or sexual reserve. Herein lies the rub. If you ask Indian wives what they think about their husbands, they will tell you how charming and gallant they are as people but how lousy they are as lovers. Now, if that makes you jump to the conclusion that Indian men are sexual under-performers, you have obviously got the wrong end of the stick. Indian husbands are...
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